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Tag Archives: Mature Love
Quotes on LOVE
. “Love seeks one thing only: the good of the one loved. . . . To love another is to will what is really good for him [or her]. A love that . . . loves blindly merely for the … Continue reading
Posted in "The Art of Loving", David Schnarch, Erich Fromm, Mature Love, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Perspective, Real Love, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Thomas Merton, Uncategorized
Tagged "How To Love", "No Man Is an Island", "The Art of Loving", David Schnarch, Erich Fromm, Mature Love, Mental health, perspective, Real Love, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Thomas Merton, Understanding
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Love Means Opening Yourself Up
. . A big part of love means consciously opening yourself up to your beloved and sharing with your partner from what’s best in you. This means consciously choosing and risking being vulnerable and trusting your partner and revealing … Continue reading
Posted in "The Four Loves", C.S. Lewis, Conscious Love, Critical Thinking, Love is a Choice, Love is a Commitment, Love is a Decision, Love Is a Verb, Love is Not a Feeling, Mature Love, Personal Growth, Perspective, Real Love, Self-Awareness, Thích Nhất Hạnh, The Examined Life, Truth, Vulnerability, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged "The Four Loves", C.S. Lewis, Conscious Love, Intimacy, Love is a Choice, Mature Love, Real Love, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Vulnerability
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Is it Possible to Lie & Deceive Someone We Love?
Is it possible to lie and deceive someone we love? One of the blogs I read on occasion (http://relationshipremedy.com/2015/01/28/sex-lies-and-the-truth/) asked a question similar to that asked above. And the short answer is: No, of course not. And the longer answer … Continue reading
Posted in Antilove, Commitment, Immature Love, Intimacy, Kindness, Love, Love Is a Verb, Mature Love, Mental Health, Perspective, Real Love, What is Love?
Tagged Adulltery, Cheating, Commitment, Infidelity, Love, Marriage, Mature Love, personal growth
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How to Know If You Are REALLY Ready For a Real Relationship
How do you know if you are (or your partner is) really ready for a REAL relationship. Condition 1: You have strong feelings or a strong sense of attraction for another. You are infatuated with him or her. You are … Continue reading
Posted in Character, Commitment, Conscious Love, Critical Thinking, Martin Luther King Jr., Mature Love, Personal Growth, Perspective, Reactive, Real Love, Responsibility, Self-Awareness, Spiritual Growth, The Examined Life, Truth, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged character, Commitment, Marriage, Mature Love, personal growth, Real Love, Relationships, Responsibility, Self-awareness, What is love?
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The Marriage Box. (Relationships Are About What We Put Into Them, Not What We Get Out of Them)
“Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a … Continue reading
Posted in Anthony Robbins, Love is a Decision, Love Is a Verb, Love is an Act of Will, Love is Not a Feeling, Marriage Box, Mature Love, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Real Love, What is Love?
Tagged Anthony Robbins, Intimate relationships, Marriage, Mature Love, personal growth, The Marriage Box, Tony Robbins, What is love?
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Distracted Living versus Living Lovingly
. Alternately titled “Long-Term Happiness versus Short-Term Happiness” . You know of the disease in Central Africa called sleeping sickness. First its victims get slightly tired, then the disease gradually intensifies until the afflicted person lies asleep all the time … Continue reading
Posted in Critical Thinking, Dalai Lama, Distraction, Mature Love, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Personal Growth, Perspective, Real Love, Roy Walsh, Spiritual Growth, The Examined Life, Truth, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged Albert Schweitzer, Anne Wilson Schaef, Dalai Lama, Distraction, Erich Fromm, Gaylon Ferguson, Happiness, Humans of New York, Karl Marx, Love, Mature Love, MindfulBalance.org, Roy Walsh, Shallowness, The Examined Life
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What Is Love? (Is Love Fundamentally a Feeling?)
We human beings, in general, tend to be confused about Love–what it is, what it isn’t, what it means to be in love, et cetera. For example: Is love primarily an emotion? Is it something we feel? And if so, … Continue reading
When It Comes to Love & Your Relationships Are You Committed or Just Interested?
. . There’s a difference between being interested in something and being committed to something. When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when it’s convenient. When you’re committed to something, you make the time to do it. … Continue reading
Posted in Kenneth Blanchard, Love is a Commitment, Love is Not a Feeling, Mature Love, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Real Love, Spiritual Growth, The Examined Life, Truth, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged Commitment, Kenneth Blanchard, Marriage, Mature Love, personal growth, Real Love, Serenity Prayer, Spiritual Growth
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Love (& a Whitman’s Sampler)
. “For children love is a feeling; for adults, it is a decision. Children wait to learn if their love is true by seeing how long it lasts; adults make their love true by never wavering from their commitment.” ― … Continue reading
Posted in M. Scott Peck, Mature Love, Mental Health, Orson Scott Card, Real Love, Spiritual Growth, The Examined Life, Truth, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged Erich Fromm, Immature Love, M. Scott Peck, Mature Love, Murray Bowen, Orson Scott Card, Real Love, Stephen Covey, Thích Nhất Hạnh, What is love?
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Love, the Feeling, versus Love, the Capacity (Immature Love versus Mature Love, part 2)
. A properly (or fully) developed human being is a Loving human being. Love, ultimately, is a capacity. A capacity that develops as the result of developing many other capacities and virtues and behavioral predispositions. Some of these are of … Continue reading
Posted in chapter 13, Conscience, Conscious Love, Courage, Differentiation, Emotional Maturity, Friendship, Generosity, Gratitude, Honesty, Immature Love, Love is Not a Feeling, Mature Love, Perspective, Real Love, Self-Love, Spiritual Growth, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Truth, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged Behavior, Character Orientation, Conscience, Conscious Love, Conscious Relationships, Gratitude, Immature Love, Love, Love is a Virtue, Love is Not a Feeling, Matthew Chapter 13, Mature Love, Real Love, Relationships, Romatic Love, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Thich Hnat Hanh, Virtue, Virtues
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