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Category Archives: Erich Fromm
Quotes on LOVE
. “Love seeks one thing only: the good of the one loved. . . . To love another is to will what is really good for him [or her]. A love that . . . loves blindly merely for the … Continue reading
Posted in "The Art of Loving", David Schnarch, Erich Fromm, Mature Love, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Perspective, Real Love, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Thomas Merton, Uncategorized
Tagged "How To Love", "No Man Is an Island", "The Art of Loving", David Schnarch, Erich Fromm, Mature Love, Mental health, perspective, Real Love, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Thomas Merton, Understanding
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Love & Boredom — “We were bored and didn’t have anything to do,
so we decided to kill somebody.” From a week and a half ago— . . No doubt about it, we’re living in troubled times. When boredom leads three teens (three likely already troubled teens) to randomly shoot another young human … Continue reading
Posted in Boredom, Chris Lane, Erich Fromm, Love, Mature Love, Pascal, Personal Growth, Perspective
Tagged Blaise Pascal, Boredom, Chris Lane, David Hume, Erich Fromm, Henry David Thoreau, Jim Rohn, Love, Oscar Wilde
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Love & Our Two Selves
. This post was prompted in part by a post that was reblogged by Todd Loheny from MindBodyGreen.com titled “The Reason Love Dies (And How To Get It Back!)” by Shelly Bullard, MFT. This is not a direct response to her … Continue reading
Posted in "To Have or To Be?", Erich Fromm, M. Scott Peck, Martin Luther King Jr., Real Love, The Examined Life, The Road Less Traveled, Truth, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged "To Have Or To Be?", Chris Rock, Erich Fromm, Intimate Realtionships, Love, M. Scott Peck, Martin Luther King Jr., Relationships, The Road Less Traveled
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Mature Love v Immature Love
. Erich Fromm, in “The Art of Loving,” wrote, “Immature love says: ‘I love you because I need you.’ Mature love says: ‘I need you because I love you’.” The first statement is based on dependency—I am dependent on you, … Continue reading
Posted in "If You Knew", "Reverence for Life", "The Art of Loving", Albert Schweitzer, Conscience, Conscious Love, Courage, Death, Dependency, Ellen Bass, Emotional Maturity, Erich Fromm, Immature Love, Intimate Relationships, Love, Love is Not a Feeling, Mature Love, Rilke, Spiritual Growth, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged "If You Knew", "Reverence for Life", "The Art of Loving", Albert Schweitzer, Death, Dependency, Ellen Bass, Erich Fromm, Immature Love, Intimate relationships, Mature Love, Rilke, Uniqueness
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The Learning of Love & Gratitude
. “The hardest arithmetic to master is the one which enables us to count our blessings.” – Eric Hoffer “When it comes to life the critical thing is whether we take things for granted or take them with gratitude.” – … Continue reading
Posted in C.S. Lewis, Conscience, Conscious Love, Courage, Differentiation, Emotional Maturity, Erich Fromm, G. K. Chesterton, Gratitude, Intimacy, Intimate Relationships, James Hollis, Krishnamurti, Love is a Choice, Love is a Commitment, M. Scott Peck, Marianne Williamson, Mature Love, Mental Health, Real Love, Rilke, Schnarch, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, The Road Less Traveled, Waking Up, What is Love?, Writing
Tagged Apprenticeship, Eric Hoffer, Erich Fromm, G. K. Chesterton, Gratitude, Jiddu Krishnamurti, Learning, Learning-Time, Love, M. Scott Peck, Malcolm Gladwell, Murray Bowen, Practice, Real Love
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Real Love & Conscience
In his classic book “The Art of Loving,” the psychologist Erich Fromm defines several characteristic of what real love looks and acts like: “Not he who has much is rich, but he who gives much. . . . Whoever is … Continue reading
How Free Are Any of Us Really To Choose Love over Fear or What’s Truly Good for Us over What Feels Good and Only Temporarily So?
“The truth is that we are not yet free; we have merely achieved the freedom to be free.” – Nelson Mandela The following is abridged and adapted (meaning I’ve edited the heck out of it and added to it and … Continue reading
Why Real Love Is Not a Feeling
The feeling of love is about oneself—how we feel about a person or how a person makes us feel is completely about us, not the other person. And that’s not love—not real love. Real love is about the other person … Continue reading
Posted in Courage, Differentiation, Erich Fromm, Love, Love is Not a Feeling, M. Scott Peck, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged a life with principles, Courage, Erich Fromm, Honesty, Love, Love is Not a Feeling, M. Scott Peck, Moral Courage, Personal development, Personal Development and Moral Development, Relationship, Waking Up, What is love?
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What Is Real True Love? 