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Quotes on LOVE
. “Love seeks one thing only: the good of the one loved. . . . To love another is to will what is really good for him [or her]. A love that . . . loves blindly merely for the … Continue reading
Posted in "The Art of Loving", David Schnarch, Erich Fromm, Mature Love, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Perspective, Real Love, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Thomas Merton, Uncategorized
Tagged "How To Love", "No Man Is an Island", "The Art of Loving", David Schnarch, Erich Fromm, Mature Love, Mental health, perspective, Real Love, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Thomas Merton, Understanding
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How To Begin Being More Thankful
Gratitude, like love, is best defined not as a feeling, but as something so much more and different: as a choice, a behavior, an attitude, as a way of seeing things, as a way of perceiving and thinking about things. … Continue reading
Posted in "Otherwise", Gratitude, Jane Kenyon, The Examined Life, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged "Otherwise", Family, Gratitude, Jane Kenyon, Love, perspective, Thanksgiving, The Examined Life, What is love?
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The Real Meaning of “Carpe Diem” (The bus *will* stop)
. “It’s only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth—and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up, we will then begin to live each day to the fullest, … Continue reading
Posted in "Dead Poets Society", Abraham Maslow, Carpe Diem, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, G. K. Chesterton, Generosity, Glennon Melton, Gratitude, Kindness, Maslow, Mental Health, Momastery, Naomi Shihab Nye, Perspective, Truth, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged Abraham Maslow, Carpe Diem, Dead Poets Society, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, G. K. Chesterton, Glennon Melton, Gratitude, Mitch Albom, Momastery, Momastery.com, Naomi Shihab Nye, perspective
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*DO* Carpe Diem
. *DO* Carpe Diem (& *Do* Hug Your Children & Spouse More, and *Do* Begin Much More Often with the End in Mind) . . “The way to begin loving anything is to realize that it might be lost.” …… … Continue reading
Posted in "If You Knew", "Shadowlands", Ellen Bass, Glennon Melton, Gratitude, Henri-Frédéric, Mature Love, Mental Health, Momastery, Perspective, Real Love, Spiritual Growth, Truth, Waking Up, What is Love?
Tagged "If You Knew", "Shadowlands", Ameil, Carpe Diem, Ellen Bass, Glennon Melton, Gratitude, Growing Up, Henri-Frédéric Amiel, Love, Momastery, Momastery.com, Newtown Connecticut, perspective, Sandy Hook Elementary School, Truth, Waking Up
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Are You “Living Music”? Are You Living Your Life Like “Living Music”?
The way love—and not fear—moves you, and moves through you, is your true destiny. When you don’t add fear to love’s force, your life unfolds unimpeded, and each day is a flowering of your deepest gifts. At work, with your … Continue reading
Falling in Love versus Being in Love and Genuinely Loving Another
Falling in Love versus Being in Love and Genuinely Loving Another The “in-love-ness” of romantic love is an inherently unstable and temporary experience. It does not represent a stable stage of consciousness—it does not represent an earned and more … Continue reading